Bringing The Fancy Woman Back

Wear Clothes That Fit
There is nothing worse than seeing a beautiful lady walking down the street with her flabby stomach showing or hanging out from up under her shirt, skin tight pants on, all of her breast hanging out or even with no bra on when she should have one on. A fancy woman does not let it all hang out. Plain and simple, if you don't feel good about yourself in it don't wear it. Keep it until you can fit it or give it away. I often wonder sometimes if these women feel their skin hanging out. Most of you have seen it so you know what I am talking about.

Accessorize Your Outfits
Don't be afraid to dress your outifts up and keep them interesting with sunglasses, a belt, shoes, necklaces, earrings, handbangs, jewelry, a scarf or maybe even a flower. An accessory can always be a nice complement to your outfit. Remember simple is always best. Wear a simple necklace, a bracelet and ring instead of every piece of jewelry that you can find that is cute. Save some accessories to wear with your other outfits. Try finding some inexpensive accessories so you will have many to choose from and wear them with your different outfits.

I love bling. Almost everyone loves bling but there is a classy way to wear it and it is not all at once. Look at your whole complete outfit in the mirror before you leave the house to make sure you didn't overdo it. Remember, if you have on a top that already has accessories, bling or decoration around the neck you do not need additional accessories around your neck. When you have a short cut or an up-do this is the best time to show off your shoulders and neckline by adding a nice necklace and a pair of big or blingy earrings.

Undergarments 101
It is important to wash your bras on the delicate cycle. I even have a special delicate washing powder for my bras. Bras should not be placed in the dryer. They should be washed frequently. It is very unattractive to see a woman's dirty bra strap showing under her top.

 I sometimes hold bra etiquette classes and I have learned a lot  about bras myself thanks to my good friend Lorne Wellington CEO of Sculpted Silhouette here in Los Angeles. Read her story here http://sculptedsilhouette.com/about-us/my-story/. Lorne is the Chief Bra Lady fitting women from A-K cups.  I always say we as women do not know or are not educated enough when it comes to bras. Especially when Oprah aired a show that revealed that one in eight women are wearing the wrong size bra. There was a huge demand for bra fitting at that time. I even had a bra party at Nordstrom. It was fun for everyone to find out their true bra size. It is really amazing how wearing your true bra size can make you look so different in your clothes. It can give you a whole new look.

 You should go for a fitting every 6 months - 1 year. If your breasts are coming out above or below your bra cup it is time for a new bra. If your breasts sit on your stomach it is time for a new bra. You should get a bra that is appropriate for your body. Do not choose a bra that has a little skinny strap when you have very large breasts. That is like trying to hold a weight with a string. It's going to break. Also, try to find something that will not have your nipples showing.

Underwear and socks should be thrown away when the elastic is worn or they have holes or stains. You can find a pair of panties at the 99cents store now and socks too. There are many places you can find inexpensive panties or on clearance racks at your favorite stores. So out with the old and in with the new!

Don't forget our babies, our daughters. When we see their breasts begin to develop the first thing we think is Oh I have to go get her a training bra. Those were the days that have come and gone. If you know what I mean. I see some of these young girls that are larger than I am. My breasts developed early so I know. Forget the training bra. We need to have our girls fitted for a bra to find out their correct true bra size. Wearing the wrong size bra is not good for their breasts that are still developing. So ladies get your fittings!

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